I pray that when ________’s heart is grieving and embittered and she (he) feels pierced within and if she (he) becomes senseless and ignorant, like a beast before You, let her (him) know, in spite of her (his) feelings, that You are continually with her (him). You will take hold of her (his) right hand. With Your wise counsel, You will tenderly lead her through her (his) journey. And then You will bless her (him).